If you are with Tinder, then you surely know which question almost always comes from the women: “What are you looking for?”. In this video you get the right answer to “What You Looking For On Tinder?”
What women want to achieve with this question
We don’t know how you feel about the question “What are you looking for here?”, but we would like to show you how you can answer the question elegantly. For what is the purpose of every woman with this question who asks you at Tinder or elsewhere: “What are you looking for here? Every woman with this question is looking for a permanent relationship with Tinder. That’s why she asks this question and the stupid man who answers the question now with: “I’m just looking for non-binding sex, an affair, a little adventure”
But the women are at least as naive when they ask the question “What are you looking for?”or write in their profile: “No One Night Stands”, “No ONS”, “No affairs”, “No Fukboys”.Because the worthy man can now give the answer to the question that the women want to hear exactly, such as “I’m looking for something solid”, “I’m looking for a relationship”.But she doesn’t want to hear that you want a one-night stand. So when she asks you the question, you keep your answer neutral. Be charming, be nice, meet her on the first date and then you can still sleep with her. But do not immediately fall into the house with your true intentions(if that is so).
The right answer to What are you looking for?
But how do you answer the question now? You keep the answer as neutral as possible:”First of all I am here out of curiosity. You see what happens, you meet and then you just look at what develops”
That’s what you should write. You don’t say: “I desperately seek the love of my life here” or “I desperately seek sex here”, you can have it somewhere else and you can also find love somewhere else. Tinder is just an instrument for meeting new people.
You meet and see what happens. And you can formulate your counter question in a similar way: “And what are you looking for here? A companion or a playmate?”Then you’ll see how she ticks again. Is she looking for something loose or is she looking for something solid? Most likely she’s looking for something solid.